Lack of communication among the family members could cause the negative atmosphere inside the family. Possibly in the beginning of the marriage, the couple have the more common topics and affections to talk to each other. However, gradually, this communication have been minimized. They do not want to talk to each other anymore and fall to the situation where the marriage is just struggling to survive.
Apparently, the husband and the wife are very clear with that situation and want to have some change to improve their relationship. The problem that prevents them from interacting each other is that they assume they know each other so well that there is no hope to change each other. For instance, the wife could keep persuade the husband to get rid of some bad habits for many times. Unfortunately, to her disappointment, she witnessed the failure or even refuse from the husband to cooperate with her. Over time, the wife gave up asking her husband to do something anymore because she thinks her words and efforts have been neglected and wasted. However, for the husband, he assume that his wife loses hope and affection to him. He become very frustrated and lose confidence inside the family. There is no encouragement for them to muster their enthusiasm again to rebuild the good relationship.
The faith could be the key to remedy this problem, but both of them refuse to accept it.
God be with them!
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